I bet my life on love.

Most relationship advice tells you what to do. I'm interested in something deeper — why you keep ending up in the same place, with different people, wondering what you're missing.

The answer isn't better strategy. It's structural self-knowledge, understanding how you're wired to love, what patterns you repeat, and who actually complements the way you're built.

I work with singles who are smart, self-aware, and still stuck. People who have done the therapy, read the books, and still can't figure out why it's not working. Through The Clarity Code, my 8-week 1:1 coaching program, I help them stop dating blind and start making choices that actually lead somewhere.

The approach I use has been developed and refined over 30 years. It examines four dimensions of personality that shape how you relate, attract, and connect, dimensions that most personality assessments never touch. When you understand yourself at this level, the patterns that once confused you become readable. And readable patterns can be changed.

I came to this work through my own experience. Nearly thirty years ago, I left India for America for love — for a man from a completely different world, culture, and background. It was a gamble that paid off, not because I got lucky, but because Thomas and I had a natural structural compatibility that I didn’t fully understand at the time. Learning to understand it — and watching it transform our relationship and our family — convinced me to share this knowledge with the world.

I'm based in New York’s beautiful Hudson Valley, where I live with Thomas and our younger son. When I'm not working, I'm probably reading, cooking something elaborate, or curled up in a chair with a book and chai.